This is funny...it really, honestly is. I got a big kick out of it and thoroughly enjoyed it despite what I'm about to say.
Go see for yourself! http://www.rachelcoker.com/a-truth-universally-acknowledged/
We need to think of our brothers in Christ as, well, just that...brothers. NOT potential spouses. Keeping the eternal perspective is so important because only when we see things in light of eternity can we really understand how life works.
Keep your eyes on Him and furthering His kingdom!